Full-Time

Staff Reliability Engineer

Full Stack

Feeld

Feeld

51-200 employees

Location-based dating app for non-traditional relationships

Compensation Overview

£100k - £130k/yr

Remote in UK + 1 more

More locations: London, UK

Remote

Category
DevOps & Infrastructure (1)
Software Engineering (1)
Required Skills
Incident Response
Distributed Systems
Data Visualization
Node.js
Postgres
Infrastructure as Code (IaC)
TypeScript
AWS
Redis
Observability
REST APIs
DevOps
React Native

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Requirements
  • Significant experience building and operating production backend systems at scale, including debugging distributed systems and performance issues.
  • Strong TypeScript and Node.js, or equivalent backend, experience, with comfort working across services and application programming interfaces.
  • Proven incident response leadership, including on-call participation, triage, mitigation, root-cause analysis, and follow-through.
  • Solid observability skills, including practical experience with logging, metrics, tracing, and turning signals into actionable alerts and dashboards.
  • Experience collaborating with mobile teams and understanding mobile-to-backend integration concerns such as application programming interface compatibility, releases, and feature flags.
  • Demonstrated Staff-level individual-contributor leadership through design reviews, technical direction, documentation, and cross-team alignment.
Responsibilities
  • Own reliability outcomes across critical backend services and their integration with mobile clients using React Native.
  • Lead technical problem-solving during incidents by coordinating response, diagnosing root causes, communicating status, and driving resolution.
  • Build and evolve monitoring and observability, including dashboards, alerts, tracing, and logging, to enable fast detection and diagnosis.
  • Drive blameless post-incident reviews and ensure learnings become durable fixes through technical changes, runbooks, automation, and process updates.
  • Improve engineering safety and quality through guardrails, safer migrations, feature-flag practices, rollout strategies, and resilience patterns.
  • Partner with product, design, quality assurance, and engineering teams early to align delivery plans with operational risk and reliability needs.
  • Strengthen documentation and onboarding through architecture notes, runbooks, service ownership documents, and ways-of-working guides.
  • Mentor engineers through pairing, reviews, incident shadowing, and pragmatic coaching on production ownership.
Desired Qualifications
  • React Native experience and/or a strong understanding of mobile architecture patterns and release constraints.
  • AWS or similar cloud experience and familiarity with infrastructure as code, continuous integration and continuous delivery, and production tooling.
  • Experience designing reliability programs involving service-level objectives, error budgets, incident processes, and operational excellence improvements.
  • Experience with PostgreSQL, Redis, and performance tuning in high-traffic systems.
  • Experience in a high-growth environment where prioritization and pragmatic trade-offs are essential.

Feeld is a location-based dating app focused on ethical non-monogamy and diverse relationship styles. It helps individuals and couples explore non-traditional relationships by offering a profile-matching experience with advanced identity options and the ability for partners to link their profiles for couple use. The app operates on a freemium model: it’s free to download and use, while a Majestic subscription unlocks features such as seeing who liked you, anonymous browsing, and private photos visible only to connections. This product differentiates itself by supporting a wide range of gender and sexuality options (over 20) and by fostering a sense of community through offline events and a print publication, in addition to the digital platform. Feeld’s goal is to create a safe, mature space for emotionally curious people to connect and explore relationships together, with a focus on inclusivity and international reach.

Company Size

51-200

Company Stage

Seed

Total Funding

$540K

Headquarters

London, United Kingdom

Founded

2014

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What believers are saying

  • Revenue reached £39.5 million in 2023, with £5.5 million profit and strong overseas growth.
  • Reflections launched March 9, 2026, expanding acquisition through free self-discovery outside the app.
  • Feeld’s user base keeps growing while competing dating apps report stagnant or falling demand.

What critics are saying

  • Feeld’s 368% membership surge invited mainstream daters, scammers, and bot abuse by 2025.
  • UK age-verification rules from July 2025 raise compliance costs and friction across markets.
  • Reliance on a niche identity leaves Feeld vulnerable if competitors copy ENM filters.

What makes Feeld unique

  • Feeld built the clearest product for ENM, polyamory, kink, and queer exploration.
  • Ana Kirova’s 2026 Reflections deepens identity discovery beyond swipe-first dating apps.
  • Couple-linked profiles and offline events create a community moat mainstream apps lack.

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Benefits

Flexible Work Hours

Unlimited Paid Time Off

Remote Work Options

Home Office Stipend

Professional Development Budget

Mental Health Support

Company Social Events

Growth & Insights and Company News

Headcount

6 month growth

2%

1 year growth

8%

2 year growth

1%
Wired
Mar 9th, 2026
Feeld dating app faces backlash as membership surges 368% and longtime users lament shift to 'normie hell

Feeld, a dating app launched in 2014 for nontraditional and kink-friendly daters, is facing criticism from longtime users who say it has become overrun with mainstream daters. The platform's membership grew 368 percent from 2021 to 2025, with new users surging nearly 200 percent. Many power users describe the app as "normie hell", complaining it now attracts vanilla daters "using the app as the new Tinder", along with scammers and bots. One Brooklyn user even encountered an ICE agent's profile during a local operation. CEO Ana Kirova maintains the platform's growth reflects broader resonance with its values. On Tuesday, Feeld will launch Reflections, a free 30-minute self-discovery survey measuring users' desires, boundaries and relationship preferences across 165 prompts.

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Nov 27th, 2024
Dating App Feeld Launches New Magazine

Feeld, a dating app created for people interested in threesomes, has now launched a lifestyle magazine to enhance the brand for its app.

Hypebae
Jul 17th, 2024
Feeld Launches Its "F-ck Around and Find Out" Campaign

Feeld launches its "f-ck Around and Find Out" Campaign.

Interview
Feb 19th, 2024
Feeld CEO Ana Kirova on Skincare, Saltburn, and Sexual Awakenings

Late last year, as it celebrated its ten-year anniversary, the kink- and curiosity-friendly dating app Feeld underwent a comprehensive rebrand, overhauling its logo and interface and announcing an IRL 24-hour, multi-city party to bring its members face to face with one another.

Institute for Family Studies
Feb 1st, 2024
The Polyamorist Next Door

The dating apps Feeld and Ok Cupid have introduced non-monogamy into their filtering systems; can other dating sites be far behind?