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XOXO AI

Decentralized AI-avatar social/networking simulations

Staff Software Engineer - Data/ML

Full-TimeUpdated on 9/30/2026
$250k - $500k/yr+ Equity 1%-5%
Senior
San Francisco, CA, USA
In PersonOn-site in San Francisco, California.

About the job

Requirements
  • Experience shipping data and/or machine learning systems from prototype to production with strong reliability, scalability, and latency outcomes.
  • Strong command of data modeling and managing schema evolution in event-driven and streaming environments.
  • Deep experience with streaming and real-time processing, such as Flink or Spark, including correctness under late or out-of-order data.
  • Experience building or operating real-time feature pipelines and/or feature stores for low-latency inference.
  • Hands-on experience with modern data warehousing, such as Snowflake or BigQuery, and telemetry/event data standards.
  • Ability to translate product and business questions into durable datasets, metrics, and contracts.
Responsibilities
  • Build and run high-throughput batch and streaming pipelines for analytics, training, and product signals.
  • Own real-time feature pipelines and online feature serving for low-latency inference.
  • Design and govern dimensional data models and handle schema evolution without breaking downstream consumers.
  • Implement and optimize model-serving infrastructure to meet strict latency and reliability service-level objectives.
  • Define and enforce event schemas, telemetry standards, and data contracts across teams.
  • Partner with engineering, product, and research to turn ambiguous product needs into measurable, durable systems.
Desired Qualifications
  • Production experience with Ray.
  • Familiarity with MLOps tooling and practices, including MLflow, Kubeflow, CI/CD for models, and monitoring/drift.
  • Experience with multi-agent systems or reinforcement learning at scale.
  • Strong opinions and patterns for data contracts, observability, and testing for pipelines and serving systems.
  • A link to relevant code, technical writing, or project work is strongly encouraged.

About the company

XOXO AI provides a decentralized platform where users create persistent AI-self avatars that mirror themselves and interact in AI-to-AI simulations for dating and professional networking. Users onboard by loading data from a social profile or chatting with an AI bot, and their avatars engage with other AI agents in gamified simulations to test compatibility, producing ranked transcripts of interactions. The system differentiates itself with decentralization and on-chain features like pair NFTs and decentralized GPU tokens, integrating blockchain technology with AI-driven social discovery. The goal is to reshape digital connections into authentic, personalized interactions mediated by AI avatars, serving as an everyday interface of intelligence.

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Simplify's Take

What believers are saying

  • XOXO.ai updated August 5, 2026, touting a recent breakthrough across model infrastructure.
  • It is hiring 3D, motion, backend, and Data/ML roles in San Francisco.
  • Caplight lists $6 million raised in January 2026, supporting runway and iteration.

What critics are saying

  • XOXO AI shows no public product, users, or revenue as of August 2026.
  • AI dating transcripts create immediate privacy, consent, and defamation exposure at launch.
  • A token-gated subscription model risks SEC scrutiny and consumer backlash before Q4 2026.

What makes XOXO AI unique

  • XOXO AI pairs AI-self avatars with on-chain primitives, unlike plain dating apps.
  • XOXO.ai posted backend and Data/ML jobs on August 5, 2026, signaling real buildout.
  • Impatient Ventures led the January 2026 seed, backing a consumer AI social lab.

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